Arguments...fights....these are such an inseperable part of any relationship. If a relationship lacks them...............maybe there isn't much to that relationship. When do we have fight or have an argument.........when something or someone has hurt us...and only those whom we feel are dear to us can have this effect on us. They should be able to stir us at the emotional level.....be it by love or by hate......only when they have managed to touch our heart, that we actually feel the pain.
Does this pain makes us grow fonder? Do we actaully look for some pain......something to remind us that what we have is precious? Something to make us feel alive again? Something to make life more worth living for?
How would life be....if nto for these sweet bitter fights?? How would it be to be happy always, be understanding always, be compromising always? Would be as interesting? Would we still value our love so much? Wouldn't it at some point, make us take our relationship for granted??
As important as fights are in a relationship................being able to understand that love prevails above all else.................forgiveness should come as easily as the temper! Irrespective of being in the wrong or right................i think egos don't ahve a place here. Its the moment of peace whic counts..............saying a sorry does not signify that u r wrong or they are right............it just means that its time to reconcile. Its time to make up for the fight.....for the misunderstandings. Its time to love again :)
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